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High Family Genealogy

Date Line....Crockett Texas....June 21st, 2005
It was a lovely day in this East Texas Town. 
The first day of summer and the longest day of the year, it 
was a good time for the dedication of a memorial monument to
the Robert Albert High family of Crockett, Texas
Only a few people were on hand but we spoke a few words
and took some pictures of the attractive monument that had
been placed on the family plot. (Pictures at Glenwood Cemetery)

Memorial Speech
By Joan Estelle High
©June 22, 2005

Good Morning everybody,
We wish to thank you for coming .
A special thanks goes to Bette Sarver 
who has been our contact person in here in Crockett.
Most of the time when people gather at a cemetery it is a sad time
 because somebody has died.
But not today, we are here because somebody lived.

We are here to celebrate the lives of the Robert A. High family of Crockett.
They were never rich or famous. 
Although God fearing people they would not have been considered saints.,
But neither were they any more sinners than most of us standing here today.
They lived and loved, played and worked, and they shared laughter and tears
 for over 50 years here in Crockett.

Now thank to the generosity of two of their grandsons, ( Carl  High and Donald Slocum )
 their last earthy resting place will no longer be an unmarked piece of ground.


I read something recently on the Internet. It was words to an old song, 
I didn’t write the name of the song down but the words struck a cord 
and seem appropriate for the occasion.

“If I leave here tomorrow, would you still remember me. 
For I must be traveling on now,
there are too many places I have not seen.”

Well those buried here have moved on,
their souls have left their mortal shell, 
and the physical bodies have probably turned to dust....
But we are here today to say to Robert,  Ella May,  Nellie,  Dell,  Lacy,  
William Cloyd, Earl,  Roberta,  Dorothy, Erwin,  Beatrice, Mary Lee

We will remember you”

We wish to thank Mr. David Galant , and Bettie Sarver of the 
 Houston Historical Commission for coming.

You can not get a group together in Texas especially in a cemetery 
and not have a closing prayer.
So if you all will give me a few more minutes of your time, I have a couple more thoughts
 I would like to share. and a short prayer.

Please sign the guest book before you leave 
and if you have a business card please leave one with us.
I will be doing a story about Crockett for my web site and hopefully, 
Ed will have gotten a few good pictures that we might post on the web site.

As we gather here today, let us take time to thank a generous God for the gift of memory. Although sometimes, memories of our love ones that have died ,
may make us sad and pull at the heart stings;
But we would be even sadder if the memories of those lives here on Earth are lost in time.
We humans are blessed that we can look back at the past,
 learn the lessons that the past has to offer,

those lessons that can help us now in the present and give us hope for the future.

May God bless each and every person gathered here today. 
and may He supply their needs abundantly.
 May we all go forth today determined that our lives 
will be a blessing to our families  and to our communities. 
And we go forth with the hope 
that  some where, some day, some body will remember us. Amen.

Robert Albert High
1849-1924
There are pictures and additional  information under names that are under-lined 
Robert Albert High
Born April 1849 in Georgia
Died August  2, 1924 in Crockett Texas.
Buried : Glenwood South Cemetery in  Crockett Texas
Father; Wiley Turner High born 1816 Ga.
Mother: Mary Elizabeth Duke born 1816 Ga.
Wife : Ella May DeForce  born  Sept.1867 in Erie County Pa.
Her parents were  Samuel A. DeForce(1841) and Mary (1850) .Ages taken from the 1880 Houston County Census and the 1900 Summitt Ohio Census.
Her brothers were:
Willie (William ) DeForce born 1864 in Pa. William's wife  was Molly DeForce.
Clifton DeForce   born 1868 in  Pa. Wife was Maude and they had 2 girls Helen and Lois.
I found the family on the 1910 and 1920  Pa. Allegheny, Mifflin Township.
R.C. DeForce (Clyde) born April 12, 1886 and Died May 1966 (Social Security Records) Census- Married Clara unknown Born 9-21-1880 died June 1974. They had  no children  lived in Indiana.
I did find a Robert C. Deforce on the 1920 Louisville Ky. Census with a wife Lillian.?
His age was given as 38 and hers was 39 
Ella Mae High  died October 1945 in Bartlesville, Oklahoma.
and she is buried in Glenwood South  Cemetery in Crockett Texas.
Married  9-22-1884 in Houston County Texas
Children of Robert and Ella May High
Nellie Mae High   born July 28 1885 married Alton William Trotter. They had 4 children, Robert Alton, Leslie and Dorothy. Dorothy had a twin named  Donald who died young. 
She died Oklahoma July 9 1982  Buried Memorial Park Cemetery in Bartlesville, Oklahoma.
Dell Burtice  High (Daughter) born 1891 in Texas . Died April 13, 1909 in Crockett. Texas.
Her obituary said she died from appendicitis. She was attending Sam Houston Normal School in Huntsville and was planning to be a teacher. 
She was buried at Glenwood in Crockett.
Lacy B. High (son) born 9-1890 in Texas Died  10-10-1918 at  Camp Bowie, in Fort Worth, Texas  during WW1. He was buried in Crockett  Texas at Glenwood. Pictures of the 4 High brothers. Lacy, William, Earl and Erwin. 
William  Cloyd  High  born 1894 Rusk Texas Died 1956 in Nebraska and was buried there.
Earl P. High Born 1-22-1897 Texas Died 6-9-45 in Veteran Hospital . He married Louetta Bates   He was   living in Crockett, Texas when he fell ill. Died of a perforated ulcer and hemorrhage. He is buried in Glenwood in Crockett. Tex..
Roberta High  born 1898 in Crockett. Not on 1910 census. No information on Roberta at this time.
Ogden (Dorothy) A. High  
Update 6-30-2004
born  Jan 24, 1898  Died in Texas City , Galveston County, Texas on April 27, 1923 in a car accident as a result of a collision with the Galveston and Houston Inter bound Train . Remains sent to Crockett on 4-29-1923.
 She was married  to  Leon Lord.
Erwin High   born  August 10 1899 in Texas. He died 1948 Houston. Erwin and wife Ora were on the 1930 Crockett City, Houston County census. He is listed as a carpenter and a veteran of W.W.1 He was survived by 2 children born in 1925  that are still living in 2003. Ora's mother was Effie Clark. 
Click on Erwin High  to see family pictures  and a tribute to his daughter Mary Sue High Martin. Photos Submitted by Carl High.
Beatrice High 10-12-1903 in Crockett, Texas Died 10-3-1915 at Shiloh Texas. Was later buried at Glenwood. Death was sudden and she had some type of hemorrhage
Mary Lee  born 1907 married Carl Slocum in 1927.  They had 3 Boys, Donald, Eugene and Ralph
Mary Lee passed away 7-14-2003. She was a lovely lady, much loved  and will be missed.
 

* The High family also had a farm at the old Shiloh community south of Crockett.
The Old Shiloh Methodist Church and Campground has a historical marker and
a church that was  started in 1883. Click on Old Shiloh Church for pictures taken on 6-21-2005. 


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