My dictionary says a voyeur is one who obtains sexual gratification from observing individuals who are engaged in sexual acts or a prying observer who is seeking the sordid or scandalous.
I think we are turning into a nation of voyeurs.

We are being fed a daily doze of sordid tales about the rich and famous men of our world.
The fact that some  rich man has been known to go "whoring" is nothing new.
Even poor men have been known to be trapped by their gonads.
What seems new to me is that the women involved seem to think that "shacking up" with some body’s else’s husband some how makes them "special".
Why do reporters find these women news worthy
 and vent their every comment across in head lines ?

 All of that golfer’s "one night stands" seem to think that having sex
with a famous person somehow makes them a special person.
They are about as special as a pay toilet.
Today I saw where a would be" king maker "was quoted
as saying how sorry she felt for her lover’s "dying wife".
She felt so sorry, but that did not stop her from having unprotected sex
and bringing an innocent baby into a sordid affair. Get real.
Just what  her lover's  family needs to have this  splashed all over the world again.
Why doesn’t she just shut up ?
Maybe in time the marriage might begin to heal
and the wife could recover from the invasion of her marriage
but no the mistress just keeps picking the scab.
Don’t these women have anything remotely like a feeling of shame or embarrassment.

Don’t you just love the latest excuse for infidelity. They call it" sexual addiction"
If that was the problem the men would be chasing their wives
around the bedroom twice a day.
Sexual problems are the result of the individual not growing spiritually.
Until a person opens up their hears and let it be filled with unselfish love they will continue to be stuck in low gear. Love requires commitment and some time sacrifice.
When they wrote the song, " I never promised you a rose garden",
they got that line right.
A long time relationship is like a roller coaster ride. It has both highs and lows.
 Some times it is exciting and in the down times a little dull and boring.
With spiritual growth comes deeper commitment and embers of love often catch on fire once again, sometimes to the couples surprise.

Years ago when I was a business women,
I came to the conclusion, that if a man will cheat on his wife;
Then odds were that you could not trust them to work with out supervision.
They will cheat on their jobs, time sheets, reports and loyalty.
Whether it is church or a civil ceremony, he made a promise ,
he gave his word which he then broke by sleeping around.
No way would I expect him to keep his word to me.

I think that goes double for people in our government.
 It a man can not rule his own domain.
I sure don’t want to trust him to try ruling mine.
The life force finds its way upward to different levels of spiritual maturity .
Balance should be present between the heart and the head.
That gives us hope that it will continue to help us find a path that leads us back to God

The above is just my opinion. You might want to check out my page on Chakras
 If you have anything to add just drop me a line

the crystallady @hotmail.com

I have been a fan of written Science Fiction since I was a young woman.
In my mind I would ride dragons with Ann McCaffrey
and have adventures on far distance planets.
My night dreams included flights on space ships as a crew member.
I seemed right at home just doing my routine choirs at the control console.
I even invented a space visitor by the name of Ralph for a story I wrote years ago.
 Often sat up at night in Arkansas hoping to catch a sight of the UFO’s
that had been seen in a near by mountain community. No such luck.
It is no wonder that my personal book case has a wide selection of books,
 by Isaac Asimov,(9) Arthur Clark,(9) Ann McCaffrey,(15) Sabenhagen, (4)Stephen Donaldson,(9)and Roger Zelanzny. (5) just to mention a few.

I would guess that is why I am so appalled by the "crap"
 they are putting on the Sci. Fi  station particularly  on Saturday nights.
I have tuned in to other so called Sci. Fi.  pictures that were
pure horror stories but this past Saturday night was the worst yet.
People who make these pictures are sick, warped individual
and people who watch them have to be on their way to becoming that way also.
There are enough weird things that happen in this crazy world we live in
without flashing pictures of murder, torture, rape and general mayhem
 in to the minds of already warped individuals.
The pictures were titled "Hostel".
I watched some of the first picture and saw enough
 to know that I did not want  to watch the rest of it let alone sit through a second helping.
Tell me what does drilling holes in peoples head
and cutting off their fingers have to do with Sci-Fi.?
 Do we need to teach people how to torture helpless women ?
I have had less sewerage in my house when my toilet over flowed.

Yes there was a disclaimer stating this was an adult film.
What kind of adult were they talking about.
Nobody that I would want to meet on a dark street.
I can  understand why porn is  banned ,
 but  I don’t understand why these violent and sadistic films
are put out over the air-waves to rape peoples minds and souls.
I did not stick around to find out who sponsored these films
but in my opinion, we need to find a way of getting this stuff off the air.